It was a cold, quiet evening a few years ago. I sat at my desk, staring at a cup of coffee that had gone cold long ago. My mind was racing, filled with questions about happiness, intimacy, and why so many people seemed hesitant—even ashamed—to pursue it fully.

One conversation haunted me. A close friend had confided in me about his struggles with intimacy in his relationship. He wanted to try something new, but every product he came across was disappointing—poorly made, unsafe, and, frankly, embarrassing. He told me, “These products make me feel awkward, like I’m doing something wrong. It’s not about us—it’s just about selling.”

That stuck with me. Why should something that’s supposed to bring happiness make people feel so uncomfortable? Why was this market so stuck in the past, ignoring people’s needs, emotions, and even health?

That night, I couldn’t stop thinking: What if I could change that? What if I could create a brand that’s safe, elegant, and empowering—something that makes people feel good about themselves?

That’s when the idea for Aboutsexy was born.

When I first shared my idea with friends and family, the reactions were mixed. Some were excited, but others raised their eyebrows. “An adult product brand? Are you sure?” they’d ask. I understood their hesitation—this industry has always been surrounded by stigma. But I also knew that this was exactly why I needed to do it.

I started researching the industry, and what I found was frustrating. Most products were designed with no real care for the user. They were either cheap and unsafe or overly complicated and detached from what people actually wanted. Worse, the stigma around these products made people feel embarrassed to even explore them.

I wanted to change all of that. I wanted to create something that centered on respect, quality, and the belief that intimacy and self-discovery should feel natural—not awkward.

The name “Aboutsexy” came to me naturally because it reflects the philosophy behind the brand: Sexy is about so much more than just appearances—it’s about confidence, connection, and happiness.

I wanted the name to be approachable and real, just like the products I envisioned. Aboutsexy isn’t just about tools or accessories—it’s about creating a positive experience that helps people feel good about themselves and their relationships.

Building Aboutsexy from the ground up was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. I didn’t just want to launch another product—I wanted to redefine what this industry could be. To make that happen, I brought together a team of experts: industrial designers, material scientists, biologists, and even psychologists.

We spent months brainstorming, researching, and testing. Safety and quality were our top priorities, so we sourced only the best materials that met international standards. We wanted every detail to be perfect: the way the product felt in your hand, how it interacted with the body, and even the packaging experience.

I’ll never forget the night we hit our first major roadblock. We were testing a new material for durability, and it failed. Again. The team was exhausted after weeks of work, and frustration was high. But I reminded them—and myself—why we started this journey:

“If it doesn’t meet our standards, it doesn’t deserve to be in someone’s life. We don’t cut corners because our customers deserve the best.”

After two years of hard work, our first product was finally ready. When I held it in my hands for the first time, I felt a mix of pride and nervousness. It was sleek, elegant, and designed with care. We didn’t just create a product—we created something that felt like it belonged in people’s lives as a trusted companion.

When the product launched, the feedback was overwhelming. I remember reading one review that brought tears to my eyes:

“This isn’t just a product—it’s something that makes me feel respected and cared for. For the first time, I don’t feel ashamed about exploring what makes me happy.”

That’s when I knew we were on the right track. We weren’t just selling products—we were changing the way people thought about intimacy and self-care.

From the beginning, I made a promise: We will always listen to our customers.

We built a platform where people could share their experiences, ideas, and even criticisms. Every voice mattered. One story that stuck with me was from a man who wrote:

“For years, I avoided products like this because I felt embarrassed. But your brand is different. It’s respectful, it’s thoughtful, and it’s helped me connect with myself and my partner in ways I never thought possible.”

Hearing stories like this reminds me why Aboutsexy exists. It’s about more than products—it’s about empowering people to embrace what makes them happy without feeling judged.

At Aboutsexy, innovation drives everything we do. From using cutting-edge materials to incorporating smart technology, we’re always looking for ways to improve the user experience.

But our commitment to safety and quality never wavers. Every product goes through rigorous testing to meet international safety standards. For me, this isn’t just a business decision—it’s personal.

“Our customers trust us with something deeply personal. It’s our responsibility to deliver products that are safe, reliable, and truly exceptional.”

One of my biggest goals for Aboutsexy has always been to break the stigma surrounding adult products. Too often, this industry has been treated as taboo, and that’s something I wanted to change.

Through thoughtful design, education, and a focus on quality, we’re redefining what this industry can be. Intimacy is a natural and healthy part of life, and I want Aboutsexy to be a brand that people trust and feel proud to use.

Happiness isn’t just about the present—it’s about building a better future. That’s why sustainability is at the core of what we do. From using eco-friendly materials to minimizing waste in our production processes, we’re committed to protecting the planet while delivering high-quality products.

Today, Aboutsexy is trusted by people around the world. But for me, this is just the beginning. I want to continue innovating, listening, and finding new ways to help people embrace their happiness.

At its core, Aboutsexy is about more than products. It’s about creating a world where people feel empowered to explore intimacy, build stronger connections, and live happier lives.

As I often tell my team: “We’re not just making products—we’re building bridges to happiness.”

To everyone who has supported us on this journey: thank you. Your trust, your stories, and your belief in Aboutsexy inspire me every day. Together, we’re changing the way people think about intimacy—and we’re just getting started.

— Allen
Founder of Aboutsexy