How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo for Beginners

When I tried a suction cup dildo for the first time, I picked a 6.5 inch dildo. I made sure the surface was clean, used lots of lube, and took my time. A suction cup sex toy sticks best on smooth spots. I always clean my 12 inch realistic dildo and my 6 1/2 inch dildo after use.

Choosing a Suction Cup Dildo

Size and Material

When I started looking for my first suction cup dildo, I felt a bit overwhelmed by all the choices. I learned that size and material matter a lot, especially for beginners. I always check the size before I buy. Most people feel comfortable starting with a dildo that is between 4 and 6 inches long and about 4 to 5 inches around. I like to keep things simple and not go too big at first.

Here’s a quick look at some popular options:

Product Name	Length (usable)	Diameter (head / max)	Material / Firmness	Beginner Suitability Reasoning
Avant D15	N/A	1 inch (head), 1.25″ max	Semi-soft silicone	Slim size and soft material make it comfortable and easy to use
Solina Mega XL	7.6 inches	Moderate girth	Dual-density, platinum-cured silicone	Good middle ground size for those avoiding thick dildos
Blush Neo Elite 7.5″	7.5 inches	N/A	Dual-density silicone	Soft outer layer, cushy texture suitable for anal use

Tip: I always pick body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel. These are easy to clean and last a long time. Porous materials can trap germs, so I avoid them.

Body-safe materials keep me safe and make cleaning simple.
Smaller sizes help me feel comfortable and in control.
High-quality dildos can last for years if I take care of them.

Beginner Tips

When I tried my first beginner suction cup dildo, I followed a few simple steps to make sure I felt good and safe. I always use water-based lube because it keeps things smooth and helps prevent slipping. I start slow and listen to my body. If something feels off, I stop and adjust.

I like to attach my suction cup sex toy to a clean, smooth surface like tile or glass. This helps it stay in place. I try different positions, like sitting or kneeling, to see what feels best. Sometimes, I use a pillow for extra comfort. I learned that the best selling suction cup dildos often have soft, flexible shafts, which makes them easier to use for the first time.

I always remind myself that there’s no rush. I experiment with depth and speed until I find what works for me. Taking my time helps me enjoy the experience and build confidence.

Ways to Use a Suction Cup Dildo

Surface Preparation

Before I use my suction cup dildo, I always check the surface. I want a spot that is smooth, clean, and dry. Tile, glass, and some hard plastics work best. I wipe down the area with a damp cloth and let it dry. If I see any dust or soap scum, I clean it off. A clean, dry, and non-porous surface helps the suction cup stick better and keeps it from slipping. I learned that the softer the suction cup and the more pressure I use to press it down, the stronger the seal. This makes my playtime safer and more fun.

Tip: I avoid textured or porous surfaces like wood or rough tiles. These can break the seal and make the toy fall off.

Mounting Steps

Mounting my suction cup dildo is easy once I get the hang of it. Here’s how I do it:

I pick my spot—shower wall, bathroom floor, or even a sturdy chair.
I press the suction cup base firmly against the surface.
I push down and twist a little to get rid of any air bubbles.
I give the toy a gentle tug to make sure it’s stuck tight.

If I want to move it, I just peel up the edge of the suction cup and try again. I always double-check the seal before I start. This way, I know the suction cup sex toy will stay in place.

Positions for Beginners

When I first started, I tried a few easy-to-master positions. These helped me feel comfortable and in control. Here are my favorites:

Standing: I stick the suction cup dildo to the shower wall at hip height. I stand facing or away from it, depending on what feels good.
Doggy Style: I mount the toy on the floor or a low surface. I get on my hands and knees and back onto it slowly.
Sitting: I attach the toy to a chair or the edge of the bathtub. I sit down gently and use my legs to control the depth.

Sometimes, I use a pillow under my knees or hips for extra comfort. I also adjust the height of the toy until it feels just right. I always use plenty of water-based lube. This makes everything smoother and helps prevent any discomfort.

Note: I like to experiment with different locations and angles. Changing the angle or height can make a big difference in how it feels.

Hands-Free Play

One of the best things about a suction cup dildo is hands-free play. I love that I can focus on my body and not worry about holding the toy. I can use my hands for other things, like touching myself or holding onto something for balance. Sometimes, I clench my muscles (like doing Kegels) to add extra sensation.

Here are some ways I enjoy hands-free fun:

I stand or kneel over the toy and move my hips at my own pace.
I use the toy in the shower for easy cleanup.
I invite my partner to join in. We try new positions together, and sometimes we use the toy with a harness for even more options.

Suction cup dildos are great for solo play, but they also make partner play more exciting. I find that mounting the toy on a wall or floor lets us explore new dynamics and get creative. The best way to use a suction dildo is to try different positions and see what feels best for me.

Try This: If you want to learn how to ride a suction cup dildo, start slow. Use your legs to control the movement and take breaks if you need to. There’s no rush!

I also discovered that some suction cup dildo techniques work better in certain positions. For example, angling the toy slightly upward can target different pleasure zones. Some toys even have special grooves or textures that make things feel even better. I like to switch things up and see what works for me.

I noticed that using different application methods and positions can change the experience. Some toys have features that help guide fluids or add extra sensations. This means I can tailor my play to what feels best each time.

Remember: There’s no single right way or wrong way. The most important thing is to listen to your body and have fun exploring all the ways to use a suction cup dildo.

Suction Cup Dildo Care

Cleaning

I always make sure my suction cup dildo is clean before and after every use. Here’s how I do it:

I check what material my toy is made of. Most of mine are silicone.
I wash the dildo with mild soap under warm running water. I make sure to clean every part, especially the base and suction cup.
For extra cleaning, I sometimes boil my silicone dildo for up to 3 minutes. This helps kill germs without hurting the toy.
I let it dry completely before putting it away.

Tip: If your toy has a motor, don’t put it in water. Just wipe it with a damp cloth and mild soap.

Storage

I want my suction cup dildo to last a long time, so I store it the right way. After cleaning and drying, I put each toy in its own bag or box. This keeps them from touching each other and picking up dust. I keep my toys in a cool, dry place, like a drawer. I always use water-based lube because it keeps the material safe.

Clean and dry before storing
Store each toy separately
Keep toys in a cool, dry spot

Safety Tips

I always follow suction cup dildo safety tips to protect myself. I never share my toys without cleaning them first. For anal play, I use a condom on the toy and clean it right after. I check my toys for any cracks or damage before using them. If I see anything wrong, I stop using the toy.